Plan the bachelorette
together, on one link
Polls, comments, and shared photo uploads in one place — so bridesmaids can weigh in without another 47-message group chat.
Start your bachelorette pageDecisions
Polls everyone can vote on
Beach house or wine country? Friday or Saturday arrival? Post the questions once, watch the tallies come in, and stop chasing votes in the group chat.
Discussion
Comments in one place
Bridesmaids can leave notes on the itinerary, ask questions about the dress code, and reply to each other — without spinning up another thread.
Memories
Shared photo uploads
Everyone drops their outfit options, moodboard pics, and (after the weekend) their favourite shots into one gallery the bride actually sees.
Access
One shareable link
Send a single link to bridesmaids, sisters, and out-of-town friends. No app to install, no account required to vote, comment, or upload.
Overview
Host dashboard
See total responses and every poll tally at a glance — so the maid of honour knows what's decided and what's still open.
Privacy
Private to your group
Only people with the link can see the page. Turn visibility on or off as plans firm up — no public search, no accidental leaks to the bride.
How it works
Step 1
Create a bachelorette page inside Bridebase and add the questions you actually need answered — dates, budget, destination shortlist, dress code.
Step 2
Copy the shareable link and drop it in the group chat. Bridesmaids vote, comment, and upload photos straight from their phones.
Step 3
Watch the host dashboard fill in. Lock in decisions when a poll has enough responses, then update the itinerary in the same place.
Step 4
After the weekend, keep the page open as a shared photo gallery so everyone can add their favourite shots for the bride.
Maid-of-honor planning timeline
A simple checklist to keep the party planning on track — from first poll to final toast.
3 months out
Key MOH tasks
- Check the wedding date and any 'no-go' weekends with the bride.
- Poll the bridal party on budget, destination, and date preferences.
- Settle on a destination or theme and hold the main accommodation.
1 month out
Key MOH tasks
- Lock in the itinerary, restaurants, and any bookings or deposits.
- Share the dress code, packing list, and final cost split with guests.
- Collect any dietary restrictions, arrival times, and special requests.
Week of
Key MOH tasks
- Confirm headcounts and reservations with venues and transport.
- Pick up decorations, party favours, and any welcome bags.
- Share the day-of schedule and group chat details so no one is lost.
Bachelorette party ideas for every vibe
Weekend cabin escape
Rent a cabin in the mountains or by a lake for two or three nights. Hike during the day, cook together at night, and finish with a firepit toast.
Spa and brunch day
Massages, facials, and a long brunch with champagne. Low-key, inclusive, and perfect for a bridal party that needs to decompress before the wedding.
City wine tasting
Book a guided tasting at a local wine bar or vineyard, then wander to dinner. Easy to scale for groups of any size.
Beach day rental
Reserve a cabana or beach house for the day. Add a picnic, paddleboards, and a sunset playlist for a relaxed coastal vibe.
Adventure weekend
For an active bride, try zip-lining, white-water rafting, a ropes course, or a scenic bike ride. End with a celebratory dinner.
At-home themed night
Bring the party home with a murder-mystery game, cocktail-making class, or DIY pizza night. Budget-friendly and intimate.
Bachelorette party questions
- When should you have a bachelorette party?
- Usually two to three months before the wedding. This gives the bride a fun break without the last-minute stress of the final weeks.
- Who pays for the bachelorette party?
- The bridal party typically splits the bride's costs and covers their own expenses. Be upfront about budgets early so no one is surprised.
- What are good bachelorette party ideas on a budget?
- At-home themed nights, a beach day, a picnic in the park, or a spa day with DIY face masks and a brunch spread. The best parties focus on the people, not the price tag.
- How do I plan a bachelorette party without group-chat chaos?
- Use a single shareable page where everyone can vote on dates, activities, and budget, and add comments in one place. Bridebase's Bachelorette HQ does exactly that.
Skip the group-chat chaos
Bridebase's Bachelorette HQ lets everyone vote on activities, leave comments, and share photos in one place — no more 47-message threads.
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