For maids of honour & brides

Bachelorette party
ideas & planning guide

Six curated bachelorette themes for every budget and bride personality — plus a step-by-step timeline to pull it off without the group-chat chaos.

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Calm, restorative, intimate

Spa & wellness weekend

Book a full-day spa package with massages, facials, and a private yoga session. End with a champagne toast in robes. Perfect for the bride who needs to decompress before the big day.

$$$Stressed brides and self-care lovers

Sophisticated, indulgent, scenic

Wine country getaway

Rent a vineyard house or boutique inn, tour local wineries, and book a private tasting dinner. Many Napa and Sonoma properties offer group packages with a dedicated host.

$$$Food and wine enthusiasts

Energetic, social, memorable

City adventure weekend

Pick a walkable city — Nashville, Austin, Charleston — and plan a mix of live music, rooftop bars, and local food tours. Book a boutique hotel downtown for easy everything.

$$–$$$Groups who love nightlife and culture

Adventurous, cosy, Instagram-worthy

Glamping under the stars

Luxury tents, fire-pit dinners, and morning hikes. Add a private chef for one night and a guided stargazing session. Joshua Tree, Big Sur, and the Smokies have incredible group sites.

$$Outdoor-loving brides and laid-back groups

High-energy, bonding, unforgettable

Concert or festival trip

Build the weekend around a favourite artist, music festival, or comedy show. Add a themed pre-party at an Airbnb and matching outfits for the group.

$$–$$$Music fans and energetic groups

Creative, relaxed, budget-friendly

DIY craft & brunch party

Host at someone's home or a local studio. Think flower-crown making, candle pouring, or pottery painting — followed by a long brunch with mimosas and a custom playlist.

$–$$ crafty groups and budget-conscious brides

Maid of honour planning timeline

1

3 months before

Poll the group for dates and budget comfort levels

2

2 months before

Choose the destination or theme and book accommodations

3

6 weeks before

Plan activities, restaurant reservations, and transportation

4

1 month before

Confirm RSVPs, collect money, and share the itinerary

5

2 weeks before

Pack favour bags, confirm bookings, and prepare a group chat

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